3 Things Quietly Making Your Living Room Feel Stressful
Sometimes even a living room clear of any clutter, with everything perfectly in place, can still feel stressful. So, while tidying your living room can definitely solve the visual chaos, there’s more to it than just a space that is clean on paper.
Monotone palettes that feel rigid, loops of lamp cords and TV cables detracting from the beauty of the room, and thoughtlessly curated furniture are three key reasons this zone doesn’t instantly settle your mind and body. So, I spoke to interior designers about fixing these mistakes to make your home feel calm.
One that feels peaceful, design-forward, and more like home. Here’s what they had to say.
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1. Monotone Palettes
DO INSTEAD: Indulge in a balanced color palette that feels fun while allowing your senses to relax into its embrace.
(Image credit: Pablo Veiga. Design: buck&simple)
Now, this might sound surprising, but contrary to popular belief, monotone palettes can actually make a living room feel stressful. It’s the rigidity of a flat single-color space that might make you hyper-aware of your surroundings.
“Instead of using the same color for the walls, trim, ceiling, and furniture, introduce variation by creating tonal transitions,” says Gina Elkins, principal designer at Studio Casa Vita.
“For example, if your wall is cream, try tinting the trim color up or down by 50%, and the same for the furniture. A monochromatic color scheme can be very sophisticated and clean, but monotone is not where it’s at.”
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Gina, an Assoc. AIA, NCIDQ, and ICAA member, has a passion for architecture and design that started in her childhood, studying construction books and supervising her home’s construction. She pursued her love for building by studying architecture and interior design at the University of Houston, leading an award-winning two-decade career in residential architecture and interiors. She has contributed to projects featured in Architectural Digest, Luxe Magazine, Modern Luxury Interiors, The Wall Street Journal, and Traditional Home.
2. Cords
DO INSTEAD: Conceal your wiring and keep loose cables organized or out of sight.
(Image credit: Anson Smart. Design: Shantala Mack Interiors. Architecture: Mary Beatty. Building: Tim Ainscough)
“I’ll walk into a room where every decision has been agonized over. Someone spent weeks finding just the right sofa, arguing with themselves over paint colors, and moving the coffee table three inches in every direction. Then there’s a lamp cord hanging down the side of the console, and suddenly that’s all you see. That’s what makes a room stressful,” says John Maloney McNamara, principal designer at COOSA.
“Cords are visual static. I’ve never met a sofa good enough to outrun a power strip. The real solution happens long before furniture shows up, which is why the lighting plan is one of the least glamorous and most important documents in a new build or remodel.”
But beyond renovating your power strips so they feel intentionally out of sight yet centrally accessible and organizing the remaining cords in a living room, John suggests switching to cordless features where you can. “Rechargeable lamps have gotten so much better. And if you already own lamps that aren’t going anywhere, rechargeable light bulbs are a surprisingly good trick,” he shares.
“Television cords are a different conversation, and here I’m begging. Put them in the wall. An electrician can sink them quickly, and a painter makes the patch disappear. It’s not the cheapest fix on this list, but a television is already a visual compromise. The least you can do is not accessorize it with dangling cords.”
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John is an interior designer based in Las Vegas whose practice centers on creating interiors shaped by composition, atmosphere, and a strong sense of place. As a former senior creative director at Target, John led multi-year collaborations with AD100 interior designers Thomas O’Brien and Victoria Hagan. He later directed interior projects for Ralph Lauren Home. Its interpretation of the American West, restrained, layered, and deeply rooted in place, still informs how he approaches design today. Today, John works closely with architects, builders, and craftspeople to create homes where architecture and interiors are considered as one from the beginning.
3. Ill-Placed Furniture
DO INSTEAD: Consider furniture that feels functional and a layout that supports conversation.
(Image credit: Nicole Franzen. Design: Jesse Parris-Lamb. Architecture: Model Practice)
Michelle Squire, founder of Studio SQUIRE, tells me that furniture of the wrong scale for the room or arranged without a clear sense of function is another stresser in this central space.
“Pieces that float in the middle of a room without purpose, or seating that is too small or too large for the space, create a subconscious sense of imbalance,” she notes.
“Instead, anchor the room around how people actually move and gather in it, and choose pieces sized to the proportions of the space rather than what looked good in a showroom.”
Considering furniture placement that fosters communication and avoids awkward angles is essential to a living room that often dons the hosting hat. And the four-inch seating rule is a genius helping hand for this sort of problem.
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I love walking into a living room and having the choice between a sofa and an armchair. It allows for flexible formality.
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But, of course, a good sofa is tough to beat. And if you’re in a small living room, something as simple as this two-seater is a smart selection.
Michelle Squire is the creative force behind Studio SQUIRE. With two decades of experience under her belt, Michelle has established herself as the go-to designer for high-achieving professional families in Marin County and the San Francisco Bay Area. Michelle’s qualifications are a testament to her unwavering commitment to her profession. Michelle holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology and business administration from the University of San Francisco and a graduate certificate in interior design and interior architecture from UC Berkeley, making her a well-rounded professional in her field. She is also recognized as a certified interior designer with Certified Interior Decorators International.
Now that the stress-causers have been banished, it’s time to take inspiration from the things people with calming living rooms always have. And for more interior inspiration, the Livingetc newsletter is where it’s at.
